Wedding traditions are constantly in flux in the modern world, but few brides can dispute the enduring charm and significance of the father-daughter dance. This dance is frequently one of the most emotional parts of a wedding. It is a tender moment when the relationship between father and daughter is honored as Dad acknowledges the transition in his little girl’s life.
The song choice for the dance is certainly a very personal decision, but there are some wonderful standards: “Unforgettable” by Nat King Cole; “Isn’t She Lovely,” written by Stevie Wonder for his daughter; My Wish by Rascall Flatts or (perhaps the most loved), “The Way You Look Tonight”. The chosen song generally reflects the unique tone of the bride’s relationship with her father but the song can be one that the father and daughter have just loved and shared over the years. (Some other songs you might want to consider are: “Yesterday” by The Beatles, “Daughters” by John Mayer, or “What a Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong —something joyful, but sentimental at the same time!
Of course in today’s world a bride’s often has a father and a stepfather. The general practice is to switch between the two during the father-daughter song, starting, typically with the father. Some brides choose to have two different (shortened) songs, one for each Dad. Modern etiquette in this part of the wedding may not be quite established, but thoughtfulness is always in style.
Image 1, 3, 4, 6, 7, and 8 courtesy of Patricia Lyons, Image 2 courtesy of Dominique Attaway, Image 5 courtesy of Scott Evans.
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Today’s real wedding showcases Margaret and Chip’s summer wedding. Being born and raised in Lynchburg, Virginia, Margaret always knew she would be married in her hometown! The family and bridal party enjoyed the wedding day getting ready at Margaret’s childhood home. It was the perfect backdrop for all of the pre-ceremony photos including their gorgeous first look by the pool. The wedding ceremony was held at the Andrew’s church, St, Johns Episcopal Church, and the party continued at the Boonsboro Country Club! Despite the threats of Hurricane Irene, the celebration was a success all around!
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Congratulations to all of the newly engaged! You’re getting married! We are here to let you know that the big day doesn’t have to be stressful. Keep your thoughts straight, your wedding vision in mind, and follow your initial instinct. First things first: take some time to clear your mind and focus on your dream day… the colors, the sounds, the smells, the people, the food. What are your priorities? What mood do you want to set? Perhaps it’s a large affair or more intimate. Are you leaning towards sparkles or burlap? Limit this list to several sentences and refer back to this constantly throughout the planning process. Brides tend to loose focus as they meet with their vendors and spend time looking through wedding blogs and magazines.
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If you have been to an event recently and loved the band, start there! Nothing is better than experiencing a band in person. Track down their name and find out their rate. If they are not in your budget, we suggest calling your local entertainment-booking agent to find out who plays in a similar genre.
If you don’t prefer a band or it’s not in your budget, a DJ is a wonderful alternative. DJs also range in price and style – from classic tracks to a more nightclub sound. If you prefer contemporary music, a DJ may be your best option as DJs have access to the widest variety of music. Try to attend an event where your preferred DJ is performing or if the DJ is out of town, be certain to connect on the phone and check out their website. You’ll want to make sure that they are willing to work with the mood you are trying to set with your wedding music.
